Tired of being the only one around here who seems to care?
I know I have been guilty in the past of martyring myself if things are not up to scratch.
If you find yourself being the one who does most of the thinking, talking, and doing?
It might be time to let some light in:
Provide all the information required to make one decision.
Ask those involved to come to their own conclusions.
Then come together to discuss.
The alternative is to keep everyone else in the shade while you complain about being the biggest tree in the forest.